how often do you actually share a dream out loud with the other?

almost every morning, in some form

when one feels strong enough to want telling

rarely — the words feel small for the thing

almost never — they're not for the room

when does the telling actually happen?

in bed, in the first sleep-warm minutes of waking

later — i'll mention it across the day if it stuck

almost never — i forget too fast or hold them too tight

what helps you remember a dream long enough to tell it?

saying the first sentence out loud before opening my eyes

the image — i'm holding the picture, not the plot

the felt-sense lingers without trying — the words come if they come

i don't, often — most are gone before the kettle's on

which kind of dream do you usually keep to yourself?

the embarrassing ones — the strange unflattering scenes

the dreams that involve the other in a complicated way

the long ones — i don't have the patience to translate them

i don't really keep any back — most things make it out

when the other is telling you a dream, what do you most want?

to hear the whole thing without interrupting

the one image they carried out of it

to know how it left them feeling — the shape of it

to listen briefly and not turn it into a thing

what part of a dream do you usually leave out?

the parts i can't make sense of

the boring connective bits — i tell the picture, not the road there

the words for what it felt like — i don't have them yet

all of it — i mostly don't tell them anyway

the dreams you most want the other to know are usually:

the ones with the strangest single image

the ones that left a mood i can't shake

honestly, none — i don't really make a list of dreams to tell

how the two of you tell a dream

This is a duet. Each of you, on your own phone, answers eight questions about how you actually share dreams — what comes first when you tell one, what kind of dream stays private, what part gets left out. We show you, gently, where the language overlaps and where one of you is speaking a tongue the other hasn't quite learnt yet.

Most couples have never named this difference, even when it matters. Eight questions is enough to begin.

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when you tell a dream, what comes first?

the story — what happened, who was there, what unfolded
an image — the one frame the dream left in me
the feeling — the dream's weight before its shape
i mostly don't tell — they stay mine until they fade

for two · 8 questions

the rest of this one is for you and your partner together.

how the two of you tell a dream is a duet. One of you starts; you send a link; the other takes their half on their own phone. You both land on the same page when they finish.

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how the two of you tell a dream

when you tell a dream, what comes first?

the rest of this one is for you and your partner together.

how the two of you actually sleep

what actually made the two of you, you

the childhood-bedrooms deck

the first-pillow questions

Begin
together.

when you tell a dream, what comes first?

the rest of this one is for you and your partner together.

how the two of you actually sleep

what actually made the two of you, you

the childhood-bedrooms deck

the first-pillow questions

Begintogether.

Begin
together.