the first-pillow questions
A pillow talk deck for new couples. Twelve questions to ask each other in bed — small enough to answer without preparing, real enough to remember in the morning. The kind of conversation a relationship gets built out of.
The deck is twelve cards. They are not interview questions. They are not therapy questions. They are the small openings a relationship gets built out of — the kind that take a minute to answer and a year to forget.
Hand the phone back and forth. There is no rush. One question is enough for a night.
Twelve questions for new couples. Ask one of them aloud, hand the phone to the other, listen to the answer, and let the next one wait for tomorrow.
what's the first thing you noticed about me, and what did you make of it?
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the childhood-bedrooms deck
Twelve questions about the rooms each of you slept in as a child — the version of each other you don't usually meet.
begin →the quiet-confessions deck
Ten small admissions to make to each other in the dark — never-told-yous, half-said things, gentle vulnerable bits.
begin →the year we had
Twelve anniversary-week cards. The deck opens once a year, the week of the date it started for the two of you.
begin →the tomorrow-you deck
Twelve questions about the version of each of you that's still out ahead — and the small lives you still want to try.
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